| 关于婚恋的思考 |
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| 引用本文： | 曾钊新.关于婚恋的思考[J].大学教育科学,2006,5(5):5-15. |
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| 作者姓名： | 曾钊新 |
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| 作者单位： | 中南大学,政治学与行政管理学院,湖南,长沙,410083 |
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| 摘 要： | 婚恋的道德基础是由性爱、理想、责任三种因素构成的男女双方的真挚感情。没有性爱的婚姻是同情，没有理想的婚姻是类聚，没有责任的婚姻是姘居。随着历史的变迁和进步，择偶标准也在变化，这是正常的，也是无可非议的。但是无论如何变化，择偶要坚持三个要求是不可忽视和淡忘的。对男子来说，第一，为未来的孩子选一个好母亲；第二，为父母选一个好媳妇；第三，为自己选一个好妻子。对女子来说，第一，为未来的宝贝选一个好父亲；第二，为爹妈选一个好女婿；第三，为自己选一个好丈夫。泼妇、贵妇、荡妇，懒夫、懦夫、野夫，是万万不可作为伴侣而入选的。
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| 关 键 词： | 爱情 婚姻 家庭 |
| 文章编号： | 1672-0717（2006）05-0005-11 |
| 收稿时间： | 2006-03-30 |
| 修稿时间： | 2006年3月30日 |
A Reflection upon Marriage |
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| ZENG Zhao-xin.A Reflection upon Marriage[J].University Education Science,2006,5(5):5-15. |
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| Authors: | ZENG Zhao-xin |
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| Abstract: | The moral foundation of marriage is the sincere emotions,which consists of the sexual love,ideal and responsibility of man and woman.The marriage without sexual love is sympathy.The marriage without ideal is to get identical person together.The marriage without responsibility is cohabitation.With the development of history,the standard of choosing spouse is changing,which is normal and blameless.But in any case,attention should be paid to the following three points: For a man,he should choose a kind mother for his children,a filial daughter-in-law for his parents and a virtuous wife for himself,and the shrew,the noblewoman and the harlot can't be married;For a woman,she should choose a kind father for her children,a filial son-in-law for her parents and a able and virtuous husband for herself,and the sluggard,the coward and the lustful man can't be married. |
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| Keywords: | love marriage family |
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