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出场宝宝:张菽洋性别:女年龄:4岁叙述人:妈妈专家名片刘少英浙江理工大学心理研究所专家点评小菽洋不肯道歉,一是父母的批评方式不对,二是小菽洋将道歉和坏孩子挂钩了。批评是矫正孩子现在的错误,批评的方式不对,孩子会无法接受。手镯的事情,妈妈一定要让小菽洋道歉,这样无法达到批评的目的。妈妈首先应该弄清楚孩子为什么不愿意道歉,然后告诉孩子每个人都会做错事情,及时改正错误就是好孩子。父母对小菽洋的留有想象空间的教养方式,小菽洋举一反三的创意,令父母及周围的人都关注她,喜爱她,给予她各种各样的表扬。围绕在表扬中的菽洋,一直以…  相似文献   

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在现实生活中,不少家长把向幼儿道歉或认错看作是有失尊严的事。于是,他们在回答不了孩子提出的问题或当孩子指出其言行中的错误时,往往大声训斥或动手打孩子,以警戒孩子对父母的不敬。家长的这种“唯我独尊”和专横,对幼儿的身心健康成长有百害而无一利。在幼儿面前承认自己对问题的处理不当或寻找机会与幼儿谈谈自己的过失,实际上能使孩子无形中学会做人的准则。如果家长处事不当而又从不向幼儿道歉,将会丧失幼儿对自己的信赖。最受人  相似文献   

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大凡天下父母,谁也不敢保证他对孩子的批评永远正确。通常情况是:父母们一觉醒来发现自己错怪了孩子,却不肯向孩子认错,一些父母甚至认为,向孩子道歉有失脸面,会损害自己的权威。教育学家和心理学家们的观点恰好与此相反。他们认为,适时地向孩子道歉有利于改善家庭关系,有助于孩子健康成长,也有益于提高父母的权威。1.稳定情绪后再道歉。如果你仍在生孩子的气,那千万别道歉,即使你知道自己错了,也要等你的情绪稳定后再说。情绪沮丧时的道2.道歉应明确。应该明确而又具体地告诉孩子你自己错在哪里,为什么要认错。否则,也会使孩子困惑,弄不清…  相似文献   

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道歉是一种生活中常见的行为方式。本文通过一篇讲述父母如何教孩子学习道歉的阅读文章,陈述了中美文化中在道歉方面的一些差异来探讨中国人的道歉,以便帮助中国入学会更好地道歉。  相似文献   

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陈亦冰 《上海教育》2013,(16):57-57
最近,南京一中学生随家人出国旅游,在埃及卢克索神庙的浮雕上刻下"到此一游"的行为,引发网民热议,众多国人为此感到羞愧甚至愤怒。日前,当事者父母主动找到媒体记者,表示了诚恳的道歉,承认平时教育的失误;孩子本人也认识了自己的错误。希望大家原谅孩子,给他一个改错的机会。  相似文献   

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一般为人父母者常有“孩子做错事,父母应负责”的不正确观念。他们认为孩子没有承担责任的能力,因而当孩子做错事时代他们善后或道歉。这种教育方式,对孩子来说是有百害而无一利的,更不能使孩子养成负责的习惯。  相似文献   

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1给孩子作榜样,婴儿出生后最早接触的人,对婴儿的成长通常影响最大,所以小孩在日常生活或待人接物上多会模仿父母。父母必须树立好榜样,给孩子适当指导,教他们分辨对错,是非。父母做错了事,必须向孩子道歉。父母应以身作则,成为孩子的榜样,否则孩子难以信服。  相似文献   

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正朋友的孩子参加了小学组织的"道歉日"活动。老师要求孩子们把想对爸爸妈妈说的道歉,写在一封信上,而后专门组织了一个"道歉信"展览,家长可以去参观。朋友兴冲冲地去看了,最后心情沉重地回来。因为她发现,有超过一半的孩子都在为没能考高分而向父母道歉。"道歉日"的本义,是想让孩子们能够主动为各  相似文献   

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当孩子因为攻击性行为被投诉时,如果将被投诉看作是一次共同帮助孩子成长的机会,不仅能缓解父母的焦虑情绪,而且可以帮助孩子学习到解决问题的办法,从错误中收获成长。"东东妈妈,您稍等我一下,我先把孩子送完然后和您聊几句。"每当接园时,东东妈妈听到老师这样的话,心里都会咯噔一下:东东不会又打人了吧?!是不是又被小朋友投诉了?除了向老师、同学、父母道歉外,东东妈很苦恼,如何才能帮助孩子改掉打人的坏习惯?为了帮助东东妈妈解决问题,我们专门请到了幼儿园的老师分享他们是如何帮助这些打人的孩子的。  相似文献   

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做父母的总是希望孩子少犯错误,甚至不犯错误。很多父母看到孩子犯错就着急,并不是因为孩子犯了一个错误,而是他们认为孩子犯了一个错误永远都会这样,父母把问题无限度地延迟了。  相似文献   

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运用自编问卷在广西5所中小学选取792名中小学儿童进行调查,考察中小学儿童在学校和家庭中受同学、教师和家长欺负的原因。结果发现:中小学儿童很多情况下是无缘无故受同学欺负的,此外,儿童个性懦弱、被欺负者看不顺眼、口误说错话、遭人嫉妒也是儿童受同学欺负的原因;中小学儿童由于没有达到家长的要求,学习成绩差、口误说错话等原因而受到家长的欺负;中小学儿童由于没有达到教师的要求、学习成绩差、口误说错话、不服从教师的安排和教师心情不好等而受到教师的欺负.  相似文献   

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受诸多社会和个人因素的影响,高考考生/家长常出现志愿选择上的失误。为了解和改变这一现状,南开大学高等教育研究所组织了对2003年应届考生及其家长的问卷调查。结果显示,高考考生/家长由于缺乏对大学,尤其是对专业的了解,相当一部分考生得不到科学的升学指导;从亲子比较来看,子女对个人事务拥有一定的自主权和决策权;道德教育作为家庭教育的首要任务被大多数家长所忽视,这直接影响到子女价值观的形成。  相似文献   

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This study aims to identify the beliefs of Jordanian parents of children with disabilities (CWD), including intellectual disabilities, specific learning disorders and Autism Spectrum Disorder: both in terms of the causes of these disabilities, and the ability of their children to make progress. A qualitative interpretive methodology was employed. Interviews were used to collect data from 63 parents of CWD. Two major themes emerged concerning beliefs about the causes of disability and children’s progress. Results showed generally that disabilities were attributed to supernatural and biomedical causes; also, most parents had positive expectations about their children’s progress, especially in education skills, and had hopes for their children’s futures. Conclusions and implications are presented in the light of the study findings.  相似文献   

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0-3岁是人生身心发育的关键期,家长、父母在重视对孩子身体保健的同时,也要重视对孩子的心理保健。心理保健可以从几个方面入手:满足孩子各种合理的需求,培养儿童积极的情绪;培养孩子良好的习惯和生活自理能力;提供丰富、适宜的环境刺激,发展儿童的动作能力和语言能力;客观对待孩子的过失和错误。  相似文献   

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The current study investigated whether parents are accurate judges of their own children’s lie-telling behavior. Participants included 250 mother–child dyads. Children were between three and 11 years of age. A temptation resistance paradigm was used to elicit a minor transgressive behavior from the children involving peeking at a forbidden toy and children were subsequently questioned about the transgressive event. Mothers were asked to make predictions about whether their child would peek and then watched a video of their child being questioned about their peeking behavior. Mothers were asked to detect whether or not they thought their child was lying. Overall, 59.6% of parents accurately predicted their child’s lie-telling behavior. Mothers had more difficulty detecting older children’s lies. Signal detection analyses revealed parents had a strong tendency to believe their child was honest. The findings are discussed in terms of their implications for parent–child relationships.  相似文献   

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This study aims to explore Chinese parents’ understanding about the importance and feasibility of quality pre-school inclusion and how these beliefs are affected by their levels of education and the types of disabilities in the Chinese socio-cultural and policy contexts. Findings support parents are highly supportive of the philosophy of inclusion. Both groups of parents of children with and without disabilities have different expectations for what quality inclusion looks like in the six dimensions of inclusion except for professional development and resources. The higher the levels of education, the more likely regular parents agree on all six dimensions of inclusion. Finally, disability categories did not affect parents’ beliefs. Parents of children with multiple disabilities expressed the greatest need for inclusion. Overall, parents’ agreement with the important features of inclusion reflects a greater expectation for quality inclusion and policy-making to make this happen to all young children.  相似文献   

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This study examines patterns in the kinds of discourses parents use to think about when to start their children in kindergarten in the US. Parents of three- to six-year olds were interviewed to gain an understanding of how parents make the ‘redshirting’ decision and the extent to which parental concern for sons’ achievement of successful masculinity plays into that choice. Focusing on the parents of male children, this analysis reveals parents employ two gender-related discourses: (1) the ‘failing boys’ backlash debate, surrounding the notion that schools are assumed to favour girls and how girls learn, and (2) a discourse involving the importance of hegemonic masculinity in competition with other boys.  相似文献   

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Much attention has focused on technology acceptance in the classroom, with little investigation into how parents make decisions about their children’s use of portable technology to support reading development in the home. Applying the Unified Theory of Acceptance and Use of Technology, this study identifies predictors of parents portable technology adoption intentions to support children’s reading development in the home. Participants were parents from two elementary schools within 46 classrooms in the southeastern United States. Phase one of data collection included 120 parents who responded to a validated survey that identified predictors and behavioral intention to adopt technology. The regression model explained 64% of parents have intentions to use portable technology to develop their children’s reading skills, with social influence and attitude as the most important predictors. Surveys indicated 99% of children used portable technology to support reading in the home, therefore phase two included explanatory interviews to examine adoption predictors. Interview data specified social influence ensued from the child’s school and parent community; attitude resulted from children’s affinity to use technology. Though parents’ intentions indicated continued portable technology use, parents preferred their child read print books. Interview data also revealed parents perceived an increase in performance expectancy when their child used portable technology. This study highlights the need for teachers and school administrators to be cognizant of educational requests on home learning, influences of the broader parent community on parent intentions to adopt educational technology, and children’s enjoyment reading with portable technology.  相似文献   

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The study investigates parents’ perceptions of and engagement with their children's play in the context of Qatar. Quantitative data were collected using a questionnaire that was administered to parents of children aged 4–7 years old in Doha. A total sample of 240 parents responded to the questionnaire. Findings indicated that Qatari parents valued the importance of play to their children’s development and learning. In addition, parents showed a moderate level of engagement with their children’s play. The findings also indicated that physical play was the most common type of play in which parents are engaged with their children, followed by discovery play. Moreover, significant correlations were found between parents’ perceptions of children’s play and their engagement with all play types. In addition, significant differences were observed in parents’ perceptions of and engagement with children’s play based on parents' socio-demographic variables. These findings highlight the importance of extending children’s play in all children’s educational levels, and getting parents involved in children’s play activities.  相似文献   

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为了解北京市0~6岁残疾儿童家长教育需求的状况及其影响因素,本文采用问卷调查法对313名北京籍智力残疾、听力残疾、肢体残疾、精神残疾、多重残疾共5类残疾儿童家长进行问卷调查。结果发现:北京市0~6岁残疾儿童家长教育需求广泛而迫切,在各维度都呈现出高需求。其中,残疾儿童家长对法律政策需求、专业指导与专业合作需求显著高于其他教育需求。填表人身份、家长文化程度、家庭收入、儿童残疾程度和接受康复训练情况对家长教育需求有显著影响。建议尽快建立残疾儿童家庭服务支持体系,多形式、多渠道满足0~6岁残疾儿童家庭的需求,开展有效家长教育服务。  相似文献   

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